Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Survival Tips for Women from Bonnie R. Paulson, author of 'Resisting Redemption'


Survival Tips for Women

This doesn’t entail chocolate or even wine.

Albeit a bit misleading, the title can’t be more on point.

The most important thing a woman can do to survive in this life, is make sure she has someone who has her back. I mean this. If this person is your mother, father, a friend, spouse, partner, counselor, or anybody that backs you up 100%, then don’t let them go.

Let’s define this a little bit better – the person that has your back and supports you completely, is the one that doesn’t make you feel bad about yourself, pushes you to reach your potential, boosts your self-esteem (Even when you look like crap), doesn’t take your PMS crap, would kill with you or for you, eats on a weird diet because you suggested it, laughs at your ridiculous jokes even when they don’t make sense, listens to you vent and NEVER tries to fix it, gives you inappropriate presents and laughs their head off when you open it, and makes you eat the last piece of pizza because they know you secretly wanted it the whole time.

That person who just gets you and doesn’t make you feel less than 1000% awesome.

Time doesn’t decide this. You can know someone for a day and just click. Or this person has been with you through thick and thin and even hot fudge sundae viscosity and they know you.

This, my friend, is the ultimate necessity for survival in this world.

Your “person” is the soft place you land. You are their place.

Because when you have your backs against each other, bracing each other up, then it’s you two against the world and nothing can break you down.

That’s even better than a waterproof matches.

Who is your person through everything? Mine is my husband. He’s the reason I write romances that start out slow and build into a solid friendship and then love. I can laugh with him, love with him, shoot with him, and grow old with him. And he gets and loves all my quirks. All of them.

He’s my survival buddy.

Who is yours? And you can’t say Daryl from The Walking Dead. CLAIMED! *wink just kidding.


Resisting Redemption

This is the third book in a series where the plot points carry over. All plot points will be resolved by book FIVE - the end of the series. This is a sweet style romance.

With her heart at war with her mind, Lisa’s need to chase dangerous fun over boring responsibilities tugs at her emotions. Love is the last thing she expects to find, especially with her past revolting against her future.

The only love Ryan’s heart has room for is for his motherless son. But, when he finds himself yearning for Lisa, Ryan has to convince himself and her that he’s all the thrill she’ll ever need.

Will Lisa’s past destroy their future before either of them can accept the true meaning of love?

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Pick up the first two in the series-

Romancing Redemption


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Riding for Redemption


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BonnieBonnie R. Paulson mixes her science and medical background with reality and possibilities to make even myths seem likely and give every romance the genetic strength to survive. Bonnie has discovered a dark and twisty turn in her writing that she hopes you enjoy as much as she has enjoyed uncovering it. Dirt biking with her family in the Northwest keeps her sane.

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